Ok so about a month ago I upgraded the site and at the same time installed some new security software. Well I realized a few days ago that if you tried to join and put a smiley () in any of the fields the security software would BAN you from the server?! If you have tried to join in the last few weeks and then you couldn't access the site anymore this was probably why. For that I'M SORRY! It has been fixed and won't happen again!